Tuesday, February 23, 2010

talk the talk

Why do we go to others for relationship advise? We never take it and it usually upsets us.
NO ONE is as familiar with our feelings as we are.

So thanks for pointing out my dating patterns, my tendencies, and my flaws for that matters. But doesn't it always result like this: and who are you to give relationship advise anyways!?
So what good is it. Why can't we trust ourselves? Where is this anxiety coming from?

Getting hurt in the past.
Not wanting to make that mistake over again.
Don't want to push him away.
Don't want to lose him.
Hold on to your head.
Don't lose yourself.
Don't. be. vulnerable.

Maybe, just maybe. We could try to take ourselves less seriously ... and this time, don't ask anyone for permission. Yes, it's okay.

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